Ultimate Dating Guide

In the above examples, the girl you want is not ignoring you because you are not her type. What you need to do is trigger the attraction emotion. In the first example, the reason the girl you’re interested in doesn't appear to be interested in you has to do with psychology and social standing. Again, the science of attraction.

You see, when you demonstrate you’re interested in a attractive girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently boost her ego and feeling of self-worth. You’ve shown her your poker hand and she knows you’ve chosen Her and are most interested in HER and relishes this feeling of elevated importance superiority over her friends.

She also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously attracted to YOU, she’ll lose what she has gained, the higher social value she has over her friends, which is probably the reason you targeted her in the first place, so she therefore maintains her unattainable “I’m too good for you” status.

When you give attention to the friends of the girl you want, who have lower social value and worth than her, you are in effect challenging her ego. 9 times out of 10 in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of friends (women are more competitive then men!), the girl you're really interested in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting, being playful, or isolating you from the pack.

As most women often do, they give into wanting what what they cannot have.

Here's how to deflect your attention onto the friends of the girl you want to make her feel as if her ego has been challenged causing an instant and undeniable desire to get your attention and "win" you back.

First: Use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. But, when you're talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of the other girls and give a slight smile before looking back at your target. This immediately triggers a sense of competition into the subconscious mind of the girl you're really interested in and thus making her want to fight for your attention.

Second: Casually make physical contact with her friends more than her. For example, touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing and joking.

Third: When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly more in the direction of one of her friends more than her. This really kicks the attention craving emotion into overdrive. Every try ignoring a girl? They can't stand it!

Using this Deflection theory to challenge the girl you're interested in making her want you more is just one of the psychological technique you can use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others and you can maximize your success with the opposite sex in ways most men will never experience.

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